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NOT CHOOSING IS A CHOICE

I try very hard to walk my talk. But there always seemed to be a stumbling block in my attempt to be a submissive wife. I found it almost choking especially since I already considered myself a very mild person. I knew I was either putting the wrong foot forward…

THE SON ZONE

When Gbemisola* stepped into my office that morning, I immediately sensed a strong air of resistance around her. I didn’t need to be told that this was one very strong lady sitting opposite me. She seemed irritated at being there and I wondered what compelled her to come in the…

SNAPPED…

I am not a keen television watcher but I am unable to resist the programme called “Snapped”on the Crime and Investigation Network. It is a programme about women who kill. The sultry voice of the announcer would usually ask,“How do life-givers (women) suddenly become life-takers?”I havealso found that question intriguing…

THE 12 MYTHS

1. THE MYTH: Love demands that I give up my interests, my desires and my values and adopt my partner’s own. THE BUSTER: If you lose your identity your partner will lose interest in you 2. THE MYTH: I shouldn’t have to tell my partner what I want; if they…

BEHIND THE HEART

I am a firm believer that there aren’t many bad people on this our earth- just bad behaviour. As a result of this I am usually very empathetic and I try not to judge people harshly. I know that most individuals have learnt their behaviour because it seemed to be…